Parents
Further to the conversations Mr Antonious and I have been having, I attach some WakeupWednesday information sheets, that I thought might be pertinent as we move into the holidays. With more time on their hands, many of our children will want to spend more time gaming and online.
There are so many positives to the internet and social media, such as the ability to keep in touch with people on the other side of the world in real time. There is enormous potential for creativity and self-expression, and an unlimited wealth of fascinating content that can spark our imaginations and lead us to new hobbies, activities and learning, both as individuals and as families.
However, there are also dangers that we must be aware of for ourselves, but also perhaps more importantly, for our children. The long-term impact of doom scrolling for example on our children’s attention spans and focus in their formative years, and the impact of social media on their mental health and well-being as they are bombarded with curated and unrealistic expectations about themselves and their lives.
Messaging apps pull children back to their phones at all hours, potentially impacting amongst other things their sleep and self-confidence, exposing them to social pressures, privacy risk, isolation and anxiety. There are also risks brought to their doors by powerful algorithms that control so much of what they see online, often promoting disinformation and critically taking away from our children the ability to learn how to take responsibility for themselves.
Learning to keep themselves safe online is so important but children are naturally curious and cannot be expected to naturally police themselves. When they are gaming they are exposed to the language and attitudes of much older children and adults through voice or text chat. The online environment offers players an anonymity that is open to abuse exposing children to potential harassment, bullying and worse, alongside the obvious risks of addiction and microtransactions that can lead to substantial debt.
Amongst all the good there is so much we need to be aware of, and I hope the attached sheets will help your families enjoy a very happy, balanced summer of fun.
Belinda Chavasse
Wellbeing Lead